STANIFORD'S SOLUTION
A PERSONAL VISION
To Give People What They Want, When They Want It, And Where They Want It
Because a crisis is rarely planned for. Disasters strike without delay. And emergencies do not emerge.
They instantaneously overwhelm structured systems. Systems that we once believed to be stable.
And yet, regardless of the root cause of our problem,
we all want immediate access to effective solutions (THE NEED)
The Clock Is Ticking
Pressure Is Building
But Help Is At Hand
So Reach Out
Because you are NOT alone. Feeling overwhelmed? - perhaps. Feeling out of your depth? - maybe. Feeling isolated and lost, without direction? - most likely.
BUT YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
You have choices to make. Seek sympathy, share your story, or get yourself a route map that offers you supportive direction forwards, and a reason to be.
IT'S YOUR CALL.
Our Two Resolutions
Resolution one - Meet The Need And Provide:
* Immediate online access 24/7
to solution strategies that can be applied in the domestic arena, the professional arena, and the mental heatlh arena, which enable:
- Change-state frameworks
-Problem identification
- Problem solving strategies
- Formulas for Fruition
- Reasons to inflate and protect your balloon
When you really NEED to achieve your AIM,
EMOTIONS GROW WINGS,
and mountains become molehills
in the Arena of Possibility
Resolution two - Meet The NEED And Remove Pressure:
* Privacy guaranteed.
* You only need to find the courage to speak to your reflection as you engage with Staniford's Solution ®
* No need to expose, disclose, or share your most private challenge, with people who are yet to gain your trust, and who do not have perhaps the time, or inclination to offer you their immediate support, unless there is risk to life.
* No need to remind yourself of, or relive a challenge, that only re-runs disturbing challenge-related-feelings, and which leaves you in a state of stagnation; until the next progression appointment becomes available.
*No need to cram into a single therapy session: the scenario, all of the participants involved, the feelings you experienced then, and how you feel now.
*No more pills or prescription fees
* No need for loss of earnings, or commuting costs
* Learn at your leisure, and always be in a position to press pause to enable perception processing
* Annual access for one agreed payment
And perhaps most importantly NO MORE WAITING
Challenging Conditions AND Success Stories follow.
Challenging CV
* Born into socially deprived neighbourhood (Toxteth, Liverpool)
*Dealt with parental suicide aged 14 (Father)
* Dealt with stigma of suicide, and elder brother's imprisonment
* Young carer responsibilites, cooking, cleaning etc. in support of mother and younger brother, who was aged 6.
* Educational qualifications significantly below national average.
* Left school at 16 to join British Armed Forces
*Unlawfully imprisoned within my first week
*Paid less than my colleagues for exactly the same job
*Denied National Minimum Wage
*Busman's holidays to 5 different war zones
*Continuous and diverse horizontal growth requirements for vertical career advancement
* 11 Family House Moves within 5 countries in 16 years
*Self-build home without employment income
* Serious and concurrent life changing events conspired
to challenge and overwhelm me; which forced me into a bottleneck of urgency, that nobody would be prepared for.
Choices on the table.
- Finish uninhabitable self-build home
- Or Support eldest son who had been involved in a very serious road traffic accident, which severely impacted every part of his body; who was in a coma, and who had already died twice. Permanent brain damage and being wheelchair bound for life, initially appeared a welcome prognosis. He was aged 15
- Or deal with local and regional authorities who were seeking to make a compulsory purchase order on my self-build home, whilst simultaneously not enforcing the legal bonds they had created (pick on the weak)
- Or sue site developer for not delivering on legal agreement, which meant I could not sell house.
- Or seek employment to service my growing financial facility.
-Or batten down the hatches, hold the family together, and plan how to rebuild my seriously injured son's body and mind, without subject specific knowledge, if he returned home...
* Gain access to medical knowledge that was not clinically or readily available, but which was urgent for sick son's development, and then apply it.
* Circumstances forced me to sell self-build homes and start again.
* Re-build a fresh and robust identity
* Help people overcome their challenges, when in fact they were the subject matter expert on their issue, not me
* Divorce
BUT HERE'S THE THING
Victim mentality empowers others, whilst potentially robbing oneself of belief, inspiration and desire to build realistic dreams. So, bag yourself a balloon, inflate it with passion, and protect it, like you would your private parts.
Success Stories
* Current home owner
*Learnt how to learn; how I learn!
*Learnt how to get back up, once knocked down
*Learnt how to build a robust identity, which holds no space for a victim mentality
*Learnt how to balance the mind/body relationship. So that one can always feel more comfortable, as they present, to the rest of the world, the very best version of oneself.
* Learnt how to identify inherent skillset and pesonality type. So that the perfect job would become fully illuminated. Because when you do what you are naturally good at, you will welcome workdays., rather than endure them to survive
*Learnt how to negotiate a better ROI for all investments
* Learnt how to build mental and physical resilience in self and others
* Learnt how to develop mutually rewarding relationships
* Learnt how to identify and classify asses, donkeys, and lead horses within the working environment. And determine which ones to keep and which ones to let go of. So, that the stable could become even more stable.
* Learnt how to train others and develop teams
* Learnt how to train the trainer
* And perhaps most importantly, I learnt the significant difference between instructing, teaching, training and coaching. So, that when others benefitted, so did I.
* In 24 years of military service, transitioned from young soldier to the most senior Warrant Officer in the communications branch of the British Army, with executive responsibilities and boardroom status
* Sick son became a national sports champion and holds masters level degrees from different nation universities.
* Without specific subject professional qualifications, delivered to clients and organisations a variety of successful outcomes. From analysing problems and improving numerous processes, which became more effective and financially rewarding in the professional environment, to significantly changing and enhancing people's lives in the domestic arena. Client challenges included PTSD, rape and abuse at one end of the scale to self-perception and relationship issues at the other end. And in the middle, aims were identified and realised.
* However, my limited success meant that my diary was filling up quickly, and clients would now have to wait. That outcome was wholly unacceptable to me. Because it didn't meet the NEED. Hence the creation of Staniford's Solution, Hawaii, and a variety of in-depth foundation formulas like: serve yourself first, the SVBond and AAHAA.
What did Nelson Mandela say? 'After climbing a great hill, one only finds that there are many more hills to climb'.
Freedom
Perhaps it's just an ability to move more freely, and be fully able to express oneself, regardless of environmental factors?!
